HE SAID

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Before meeting, we were both in their own personal worlds, with our own ideals and life goals in mind. I was very involved in my law enforcement career.  I was a force to be reckoned with. Known for being a real serious type, I wore many hats and was considered a leader in all areas.  Having been married before with four adult children, I was carrying around a grudge big enough to cover the city of Chicago. I really didn’t want to hear about marriage, and certainly didn’t want to be involved with anyone who was thinking on that level either.  My ultimate desire was to be a Christian, while enforcing the law by day and beating on sinners with a Bible by night.  Although my persona exuded toughness, deep down inside I was a man undone and consistently prayed to God for peace in my life.  Additionally, I prayed not only for the strength to wait on God, but for God to send me an angel to share companionship. Of course (as always), He hears your prayers and answers them, which is exactly what he did.”  

Experience: Elder Sangster has more than 25 years of experience mentoring and counseling men, and working with domestic violence prevention initiatives in the community. He has counseled Vietnam veterans, single and married men, youth and law enforcement officers.  He has numerous certificates in mentoring, peer support and counseling. He has written numerous articles, blog posts and reviews on marriage, religion and business.  He is an avid landscaper, photographer and loves to play the guitar.

SHE SAID

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I was considered a private, but community oriented person.  If there was a means to support the neighborhood and its inhabitants, I was all over it.  I dedicated time to helping young mothers and battered women, because I knew firsthand the trials of having children at a young age and domestic violence.  I tried to be a voice for the people while striving for higher education.   I was somewhat outspoken about things that were important to me, especially education, my faith and rearing my children.  My focus was not on being in a relationship having been married before, and I certainly didn’t care about a criminalist trying to befriend me.  After mental, emotional, physical and financial healing, all I wanted to do was serve God, get an education, progress in my career and take care of my children, period.  At that time in my life, I considered being in another relationship too much work, and I did not want to deal with it while trying to rear my children.”  

Experience: Evangelist Sangster has more that 15 years of experience mentoring and motivating girls and women.  She has spoken at venues promoting education and professional development for women and students. She an avid writer and has written numerous articles, reviews and blogs on marriage, professional development and business.  Her books Behold You: Change From Within and Give That Man R.E.S.P.E.C.T- 7 Principles on Respecting Your Husband are life changing reads. You can get the FREE ebook of Give That Man R.E.S.P.E.C.T here. She has a masters degree in business psychology  from The Chicago School of Professional Psychology and is working on her doctorate in Organizational Leadership.  A self-proclaimed artist, she enjoys nature, bird watching, designing jewelry and creating “odd” pieces of artwork, as well as spending time with her rescued dogs and cats. 

Christian Beliefs

We believe the bible is the true and inerrant Word of God
We believe in the deity of Jesus Christ and that He is the one and only Son of the living God
We believe that Jesus died for our sins
We believe in the Trinity of God the Father, Son and the Holy Spirit
We believe that marriage is honorable and should be based on living a life of Christ, as instructed by the Word of God
We believe that God called and chose us to spread His Word globally, on how marriages and daily living should be an example of His Holy Word. We do this through our blogs, websites and personal evangelizing. 
We worship at the Salem Baptist Church of Chicago (House of Hope), where the Rev. James T. Meeks is the pastor.